Mother-in-laws

"Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?" Ruth 3:1

Momma Lee:

My mother-in-law, who I affectionally call "Momma Lee", is an amazing godly woman. Today, as we celebrate her 50th birthday, I would like to share some encouraging thoughts about how to have a great relationship with your mother-in-law. <3

#1 Talk to Her

The more I get to know my mother-in-law, the stronger our relationship grows. Take her out on a coffee/tea date and just ask her questions about how she raised your husband. She'll share some hilarious and memorable stories. ;) Get to know her talents and abilities, her joys and trials, and her godliness/wisdom. You'll treasure and appreciate all that she is/has to say. <3

#2 Listen to her Advice

This woman raised the man you married. Remember that. If she knows how to raise a good/godly kid to be a wonderful husband/father, don't you think she might have some good advice to impart on you? (Ruth 2:22, 3:6) I have so many quotes that my mother-in-law shared with me that I have never forgotten and have implemented in my life. :)

#3 Encourage her as a Grandma

It's important for your kids to get to know her and spend time with her. Find ways to encourage the relationship between grandma and grandkids. Play dates, evenings together, phone calls or skyping, and crafts for birthdays and holidays are all great ways of growing the bond! :) (Ruth 4:16-17)

#4 Appreciate her

Whether you realize this or not, she looks out for you. She wants to help ease your burdens. (I'll never forget the laundry late-nighter. Thanks, Momma Lee!) She wants to be a blessing to you and encourage you as a mom and wife. She prays for you and thinks of you often. (Ask her. It's true!) Appreciate all that she does and show gratitude to her!

~ Momma Lee. I love you. I never imagined how much I would care for you and be grateful unto you. You are wonderful, beautiful, and an amazing woman. I look up to you and have great admiration for all you say and do. You are a great example to me of a faithful wife, loving mother, and wonderful friend. You are a strong godly woman whose heart is spectacularly beautiful. Thank you for caring for me and my family. Thank you for being my "Naomi". Happy birthday! :) ~